Removal of Ego
"All
that is fine. But what about the question of self-respect?" ask reformers
who profess to be socialists. For them, however, to raise such a question is to
remain untrue to their own ideals. They talk a great deal, don't they, about
dignity of labour? They proclaim that no job, no work, is degrading. Gandhiji
cleaned his toilet himself. Rajagopalachari washed his clothes himself when he
was premier. To demonstrate the principle of dignity of labour VIPs like the
mayor sweep the streets one day in a year. Photographs of important men doing
such work are published in the newspapers. If the reformists think that manual
work is degrading it means that they are opposed to the ideals they themselves
uphold. If you ask me, "ahamkara" or ego-feeling is a cover for all
such ideas as "status", "self -respect", etc. If you look
at the question from the angle that the Sudra does not have the self-pride
associated with the Brahmin, the Ksatriya and the Vaisya, you will realise the
truth of Vyasa's dictum, "Sudrah sadhuh". The sastras are one with
the socialists in proclaiming that all types of work are equally noble. If the
socialists say so from the worldly or material point of view, the sastras say
the same from the spiritual point of view. To explain, since the well being of
mankind is dependent on the performance of variety of jobs, there is no
question of one job being inferior to another job or superior to it. If
everybody does the work allotted to him thinking it to be an offering to
Isvara, all will be rewarded with inner purity, so say the sastras. When work
is accomplished in a spirit of dedication to God, the consciousness will be
cleansed. And this, inner purity, is a means to becoming aware of the Self. You
may look at your work from two angles. One is from that of dignity of labour
according to which principle no work is degrading. The second is from that of
consecrating your work, whatever it be to God. In either case
"self-respect” has no place in it. If there is neither vanity nor
ego-sense in doing one's duty or work, there will be no cause for anger, no
reason to feel that one is assigned a particular set of religious practices
that is humiliating. One should then be willing to accept the religious
ordinances prescribed according to one's vocation. It must be noted that if a
Brahmin enjoys bodily comforts in the same manner as a Ksatriya or a Vaisya,
his mantras will cease to be efficacious. If a labourer keeps fast like a
Brahmin he will not be able to do his duty, that is he will not able to do
physical work satisfactorily. "According to the sastras,” once a learned
man told me, "the Brahmin must wear white, the Ksatriya red, the Vaisya
yellow and the Sudra blue. At first, I wondered whether in this order one caste
was regarded as inferior to another. On reflection, I saw the reason behind it.
"Until then I myself had not given any thought to the subject. So I asked
the pandita to explain the principle behind the arrangement he has spoken
about. He said: "Even the slightest stain will be visible on the white.
When a Brahmin performs a sacrifice he has to be careful that he does not spill
anything or waste anything. If he does, his white clothes will show it. He has
necessarily to be frugal since he must not bother others for money or material.
The Ksatriya, as a warrior, spills blood, but the bloodstains on his dress
should not show, nor should it be a cause of fear for others- that is why he
wears red. A Vaisya handles a variety of commodities in the bazar but it yellow
that sticks to his clothes the most. That is why the Vaisya must wear yellow so
that the yellow stains will not show easily. Blue is most suitable for those
who work in dust and grime. Even in modern days workers wear blue uniforms. So
blue is the most suitable colour for Sudras". You will thus appreciate the
reason behind each type of wear. The sastras are indeed mindful of the
conveniences and comforts of each jati. If you realise this, you will
understand the meaning of saying, "Sastraya ca sukhaya ca." You will
thus also appreciate the reason behind many a sastric rule and realise that
there must be an inner meaning to those rules the significance of which you
have yet to grasp. Today even intelligent people do not know the meaning behind
different caste duties. "How can the work done by one man be according to
dharma and meritorious while the same done by another is contrary to dharma and
sinful?" they ask. In the olden days even unlettered people knew that it
was a sin to adopt the vocation and duties of another jati because it was injurious
to society. They worked together during temple festivals and in carrying out
public duties but in matters like food and so on they did not mix together
since such mixing, they knew, was harmful to their traditional vocations. The
mingling of castes, they realised, would damage the system of vocations, the
system that was devised for the good of all society. For thousands of years all
castes have lived according to this system, finding happiness and fulfilment in
it. If they had not found such happiness and fulfilment, they would have surely
rebelled against the system. After the inception of British rule, Brahmins lost
their royal grants of land but got jobs in the government. With the
introduction of machines and increased urbanisation, the handicrafts were
destroyed and village life received a setback. While other communities found it
difficult to get jobs, Brahmins were able to earn their upkeep without any
physical exertion. This shook the very foundations of the system of four varnas
and the British now used the opportunity to introduce new principle of
egalitarianism and the race theory. People lost their faith in the sastras and
with it there was a change in the outlook. If by the grace of Isvara, the old
system is restored, the work done by every individual - from the Brahmin to the
Pancama - will bring inward purity to all. Besides there will the realisation
that each, according to his hereditary occupation, will contribute to the
general welfare of the mankind. If we pause to reflect on the subject, we will
feel proud of varna dharma instead of feeling ashamed of it-and we will also
develop a deep respect for those who created it.
The
Ultimate Purpose of Varna Dharma
When
factories took the place of handicrafts and cottage industries, the small
village communities became urbanised. The needs of people multiplied, so too
the number of occupations. Today when the old way of life is gone, it seems
impossible to revive the system of hereditary vocations. Is it any longer
practicable how to insist that only Ksatriyas ought to man the defence
services, that only Vaisyas can transact trade and business, that the members
of the fourth varna must continue to remain labourers? Is it at all possible to
revive the old system? I am not unaware of the state of affairs now prevailing.
If so why do I keep extolling varna dharma? There are two reasons. Whatever be
the situation today - and whether or not we can return to the old order - it is
not right to claim as people nowadays do that the old order was utterly unjust,
that it was created by the vested interests for their own good and convenience.
We must be able to convince the critics that the old order was not unjust at
all and that there is nothing like varna dharma to help people to attain inner
purity. They must also be made to realise that this dharma, apart from helping
society to function in a disciplined and harmonious manner, will bring
well-being to all and give an impetus to culture. There is even more important
reason. Today the functions of Ksatriyas, Vaisyas and Sudras have changed and
become mixed Even so the work of the government goes on somehow. Defence, the
manufacture of various articles, trade, and labour - all these go on somehow.
But, unlike in the past, there is jealousy as well as rivalry in all fields.
Even so, the duties of the three castes are carried out despite the fact that
varna dharma has broken up. They are a practical necessity for day-to-day life
as well as for the functioning of the government. So they are performed, albeit
unsatisfactorily. There is, however, a function higher than all these. It is
that of taking all of them - all these functions - to their ultimate point. And
this function belongs to the Brahminic way of life and it has become almost
extinct. To teach dharma by precept and practise, the dharma that is the
foundation of all activities, to invoke the divine powers through the vedic
chant for the good of all mankind, to create high ideals through their own
austere life, to nurture the Atmic strength of the community, to promote the
arts, to nourish culture-these embrace the dharma of Brahmins and it is now on
the verge of extinction. The need for the Brahminic dharma is not widely recognised
because of its subtle and intangible character. There is no realisation of the
other three varnas. Indeed, it is this dharma that gives meaning to life and
creates a path for the fulfilment of life. We ignore it and devote ourselves
solely to the functions of the varnas. If any improvement is made in them we
are happy. But what use is material prosperity without Atmic and cultural
advancement? Material progress is no progress at all. Americans have realised
this truth - we ought also to realise the same. So however confusedly the
functions of other castes are carried out, the Brahmin must function in the
right manner as a pathfinder for others by living a life of simplicity and
sacrifice, performing Vedic rites and creating worldly and Atmic well-being for
mankind. In this way the soul of India will be kept alive. If the Brahmin caste
is restored to order, it might well be the beginning of the end of confused
state of the other castes. In this land alone has there existed - and existed
for ages-a jati for the protection of dharma and the Atmic uplift of all. If
this jati becomes extinct there will be all-round decay. If I have spoken at
length I have this purpose in view, that this jati must be revived in its true
form so as to prevent the general decline of the nation. The Brahmin jati must
not live a life of self-indulgence. On the contrary it must perform rites all
through the day for the welfare of society. Brahmins must live austerely, with
love for all in their hearts. If they are restored to their dharma our society
in its entirety will be brought to the path of dharma and will be saved.
The
Universal Remedy
In the
past, though people were divided on the basis of caste, they were free from
hared and ill-will. It is now that we see ill-will and hatred everywhere in the
country. One state is at loggerheads with another; one state has dispute with
another over the sharing of river waters; and again one state has a quarrel
with another on the question of boundaries. In the past, Cettiars [of the South]
built dharmasalas [free boarding and lodging houses] for pilgrims from Kasi.
Correspondingly, the Sethjis constructed dharmasalas for pilgrims going to Kasi
and Badrinath. People then were united as devotees of the Lord. Everything has
gone awry today because of increased political activity and empty talk. So, as
a medicine for our ills, as a sovereign remedy, we must pray that people become
more devoted to the Lord. The incessant cry that "Caste must go" has
resulted in an aggravation of hatred between one jati and another. Though the
propaganda against caste has been going on for 30 or 40 years, the caste factor
comes to the fore even today during elections. Caste feelings run so high that
violent clashes between communities are not infrequent. Here it is not hatred
between Brahmins and non-Brahmins. Fortunately, the Brahmin has been made to
distance himself from politics. It is a matter for some comfort that, even
though they have not quit politics on their own, others have pushed them out of
it. So the present quarrels are between other castes. In the Andhra Pradesh the
Khammas and the Reddis are quarrelling between themselves; in Karnataka the
Lingayats are at war with some other community. Ironically enough, it is in
these days when the cry of equality is the loudest that we witness so many
caste wars. This phenomenon is something unknown to the sastric tradition. Here
[in Tamil Nadu] candidates are chosen for elections on the basis of jatis.
Padayacis in one district, Gaundars in another, Tevars in a third, Mukkulattars
in a fourth, and so on. Elections are fought not on the basis of ideology but
on that of caste.
Cry
“Grow” – Don’t Cry “Perish”
To
speak on the other hand of the glory of Tamil culture, constantly recalling the
words of Tiruvalluvar and others who extol love and divine grace, and to raise
on the other hand the cry of hatred against a certain community - with the
display of posters everywhere proclaiming such hatred - does not seem to me
right. It goes against the very spirit of Tamil land and causes me great
anguish. If you cry "Grow", instead of crying "Perish", all
the hatred and all the quarrels will vanish. Instead of agitating the abolition
of the caste system, people must star a movement to build more and more temples
and spread devotion. If everybody joins in this endeavour, the devotion that
brought all of us together in the past as one family will again become a
powerful source to reunite us and create a sense of universal wellbeing. If
there is devotion, there will be no caste hatred. Such was the case during all
these centuries. There was caste in the old days but it did not cause
bitterness amongst the communities. It is not caste itself that is to be
faulted but the hatred arising from it. So to attempt to destroy this
institution is like burning a house to kill a rat. The movement to put an end
to the caste system has disrupted the old division of labour and together with
it caused discontent, disquiet and jealousy among people. Hatred among the
different communities has grown like a big tree with many branches. It is time
that we opened our eyes to the evil and started making effort to substitute the
campaign with its cry of destruction with a movement to bring all classes and
castes together so as to promote devotion to Isvara and service to humanity. It
will be one way of ignoring caste hatred. Countering caste hatred as such might
have the effect of refuelling it. If we ignore it and turn our minds to other
matters - other noble matters - bitterness due to caste will cease by itself.
Suppose you are admonished not to think of the monkey while taking medicine,
you will perhaps be tempted to do the opposite (that is to think of the
monkey). Similarly, when we keep all the while speaking against the caste
hatred, the effect will be the opposite, that of reminding people of caste
differences and of arousing feelings of inferiority among some sections and of
superiority among others. It is important for all to become involved in a good
cause, like the construction of a temple, or some public welfare scheme. Good
feelings like love will surely spring in the hearts of people; at the same time
much good will be done to society in general. Today, it is because people are
not involved together in such [constructive] work that they turn their minds to
destructive ideas, to argumentativeness and to gossip and quarrels.
Unfortunately, some people think that if they inflame hatred between the
communities or instigate quarrels or disputes, they will be able to gather a
crowd of admirers round them. If we are all the time engaged in constructive
work there will be fewer opportunities for trouble-making; indeed people will
not find the time to do evil. People go in procession until their legs ache,
raising cries against this and that. Would there not be all-round growth and
prosperity if all this manpower were employed to good work, if all the energy
of people were turned to some constructive task? There is one type of
"growth" that is higher than all others; it is the love that springs
in the hearts of people. I think there must be a "tight" time-table
for all: performing religious rites; worshipping at temples; listening to
religious discourses; all castes working together for a divine cause or being
engaged in social service. Adhering to such a time-table would mean universal
happiness and prosperity. Besides, it would obviate the necessity of raising
the cry of hatred against any caste. There are certainly no differences between
one jati and another so far as "status" is considered; that is one
jati is not inferior to another or superior to it. All jatis have produced
great men -Appar, Nammazhvar, Sekkizar, Nandanar and Kannapar to name a few.
The Acarya himself has sung the praises of Kannappar in his Sivanandalahari.
The sastras declare that it is a sin for anybody to regard himself as superior
to others. Great men have shown us the way in this matter. They have spoken,
abasing themselves, "Nayinum kadaiyen"; "nayadiyen". People
don't share this kind of humility in the present age of freedom - and that
indeed is the cause of much of our trouble. We must regain the old sense of
humility and modesty. If so, Jati will be confined to work, functions, and will
not in the least be a cause of any feelings of differences. If all people adopt
the same style of living that is simple and virtuous, there will be no cause
for jealousy or heart-burning. Whether or not we have the courage or the spirit
of sacrifice to work towards this ideal, a way will open out for us if we at
least recognise the ideal. May we have success in achieving this ideal with the
blessings of Amba.
From Work to Workless ness
Outward
Karma – Inward Meditation
I
have, in the course of my talks, dealt with a large number of religious rites.
It may seem that the rituals, the puja to Paramesvara and the service done to
fellow men are meant for "others". But in truth they are meant for
ourselves. By helping others, by serving them, by worshiping the Lord, we are
rewarded with a sense of fullness. Others may really benefit from our help or
may not. But when we serve them we experience inward peace and happiness- about
this there is no doubt. What is called "paropakar"(helping others) is
indeed upakara done to oneself (helping oneself). In serving others we may have
to undergo hardships, make sacrifices and exert ourselves physically. But the
happiness and sense of fullness we obtain is far greater compared to the
trouble taken by us. The Lord does not have to gain anything form the puja we
perform. In worshipping him, in reading the sacred texts, in going on
pilgrimages we find inward joy. Why do we perform puja and why do we help
others? It is all our own satisfaction. Our affection for our wife, children
and others is in fact affection for ourselves. According to the Upanisadic
teaching of Yajnavalkaya, it is for our own inner contentment that we love
others. We perform puja to the Lord purportedly because of our devotion for him
and we do social service presumably because of our love of mankind. But in
truth the reason is we like ourselves and find happiness in such acts. For the
sake of such happiness we do not mind encountering difficulties or making
sacrifices. If we spend money on ourselves or go seeking sensual pleasure, we
do not obtain the same inner satisfaction. Work done for our own sake leads to
disquiet and sorrow. We see our face in the mirror and note that there is no
tilaka on our forehead. What happens if we apply a tilaka of dark unguent to
the mirror [to the image]? It will be blackened. To apply a tilaka to the image
means applying it to the one who is in front of the mirror. Doing things for
ourselves [serving ourselves]is indeed like applying a dark spot to our mind-
it is blackening ourselves. We take the image of the Paramatman reflected in
the Maya mirror that is the mind to be ourselves. To bedeck the image in
reality means adorning the Paramatman. This is the reason why serving humanity
gives us a sense of fulfilment because humanity is a manifestation of the
Paramatmam. Worshipping the Supreme Being the same. Only then will the black
spot that we apply to ourselves will become an ornament. We decorate Amba to
decorate ourselves. If we adorn ourselves we only enlarge our ego and feed our
arrogance. When Amba is bedecked everybody will be happy about it. When we wear
a well-laundered dupatta and preen ourselves, do others feel happy about it?
They will speak scornfully of us: "See, how well-ironed he looks."
All of you give me heaps of garlands. You do so because you think I am great
and want to express your devotion for me. You also feel that instead of wearing
them yourselves the garlands would be an ornament for me. If I decorate myself
with them thinking myself to be a great man, it would means that I am
satisfying my ego. But you bring me garlands with devotion and would it be
right for me to spurn them? So just as you want to see me decorated I want to
see Amba adorned and so I offer the garlands to her. To go in search of money,
fame and sensual pleasure, thinking them to be good, is to blacken our minds.
What is it that is good for us? That which is good for the world -- and it is
but a form of Paramatmam. This truth is known to our inner being; we realise it
deep in our mind. That is why we find greater fulfilment in doing good to
others, unmindful of all the difficulties, than in finding comforts for
ourselves. The world is a manifestation of the Paramatman and so must we be
too. We must remove the mirror called the mind and experience the truth within
us that we are none other than the Paramatman. This is what called meditation.
All the work we do ought to lead finally to worklessness, to the mediation of
the Atman. The goal of all the sacraments I speak about is this. Our actions
make us happy in many ways. But in none of these actions do we find the peace
that we enjoy during sleep. How we suffer if we lose even a single night's
sleep? There is so much happiness in sleep. Do we not realise from this that the
supreme "comfort"or happiness is worklessness. Dhyana or meditation
is the state of being absorbed in the Paramatman, a state of non-doing. In
sleep we are not conscious that we are happy. It is only when we are awake that
we realise that we are happy when we were asleep. The ultimate goal of
meditation is samadhi in which we are fully conscious of the great bliss
experienced by us. If we teach ourselves to remain in a state of non-doing
within (inside ourselves) we will experience tranquillity even though we keep
working outwardly. The inner peace will never be disturbed. The quietude of
Daksinamurti is the bliss of knowingness. It is not the same as the stilling of
mind during sleep. In sleep there is no voluntary control of the mind; the mind
becomes still because of exhaustion. Such stillness we are not capable of
sustaining on our own. What becomes still during sleep, without being subject
to our control, returns on our awakening again without being subject to our
control. Death too is a kind of sleep. In it, too, the mind is stilled. But
with rebirth when the individual self becomes incarnate the mind starts to be
active again. If we learn to control the mind voluntarily it will be able to
remain in that state. Though Daksinamurti remains still without doing anything
he is full of awareness. It is because he is inwardly a non-doer that he is
able to do so much in an outward sense. The Daksinamurthi who remains still is
the one who dances the dance of bliss, who destroys the demon Tripura and who
keeps roaming as a mendicant. After granting boons to his devotees he goes from
place to place. He is still inwardly but is in a frenzy outwardly. If we manage
to still ourselves inwardly we will be able to do so much outwardly. We are the
opposite of Daksinamurti. We don the disguise of nondetachment in order to make
others believe that we are at peace with ourselves, but inside we remain all
the time agitated. Outward calm is the first step towards inward stillness --
and this stillness is to be brought about in degrees and will not be gained at
once. That is why the wise tell us:"Reduce all your sensual activities. Do
not join the crowd. Try to disengage yourself from all work including that of
doing good to the world. Keep away from money and dwell in the forest."
But do we listen to that advice? We shall do so only when our mind is cleansed.
That is why so many rituals are prescribed to purify the mind, the
consciousness. It means that, instead of asking us not to do this and that, we
are asked to do (perform) this and that rite. It is natural for us to be
involved in some work or other. So, without any regard for our personal likes
and dislikes, we perform the rites laid down in the sastras. Even here our
personal likes and dislikes will intrude but, unlike in the matter of
meditation, we succeed to some extent at least in curbing them during the
conduct of the rites. In due course, with the grace of the Lord, we will be
able to perform good works without minding the discomfort and ignoring our
personal likes and dislikes. Desire and hatred will be reduced and the mind
will become pure. With the mind cleansed we will be able to perform one-pointed
meditation. This is the time when we will be mature enough to forsake all works
and become a forest recluse and practice meditation. If we are able to meditate
with utter onepointedness then everything will acquire the character of the
Paramatman. There will be no need to leave everything and remain holding the
nose with the hand. The forest, the village, solitude and crowd -- they are all
the Paramatman. Both work and meditation are the Paramatman. Our inner peace
will not be shaken by anything. Like Daksinamurti we can remain still and
tranquil and yet be all bustle outwardly. In the Gita, the Lord exhorts Arjuna
to practise svadharma-in the case of Arjun it means waging war. The lord also
propounds the yoga of meditation in which there is no"doing". He
refers to the example of Janaka who was all the time working for the welfare of
the people but at the same time remained in the ultimate meditation called
Brahma-nistha. He himself, says the Lord, is like Janaka. There is apparently a
contradiction in all this. But in reality no. The one arises from the other. In
the beginning when it is not easy to control the mind and meditate on the
Atman, performs rituals. Then gaining mental purity through them, that is the
rituals fore sake karma and practise meditation and yoga, nothing will affect
us. In this all is still inwardly and yet outwardly there will be much
activity. Briefly put, this is the concept of Bhagavatpada: ultimately
everything (the phenomenal world) will be seen to be Maya. The One Object, the
One and Only Reality, is the Brahman. We must be one with It, nondualistically,
without our having to do anything in the same way as the Brahman. I who bear
the name of Sri Sankara, keep speaking about many rites, about puja, japa,
service to fellow men, etc. It is because inour present predicament we have to
make a start with rites. In this way, stepby- step, we will proceed to the
liberation that is non-dualistic. It is this method of final release that is
taught us by Sri Krsna Paramatman and by our Bhagavatpada. At first karma,
works, then upasana or devotion and, finally, the enlightenment called jnana.
If we advance in this way, by degrees, with faith and devotion, we will obtain
the wisdom and mellowness for Atmic meditation and inner control. Afterwards,
we may keep doing any kind of work outwardly for the good of mankind. What is
the best means of Practising Atmic meditation? We must be imbued with the
tranquillity that is Parasakti incarnate and remember every day Daksinamurti in
his quiescence. Let alone the idea of forsaking all work and becoming plunged
in meditation. Let us leave aside, for the time being, karma, which, itself is
transformed into the high state of meditation. These are conditions to which we
must arise at a later stage in our inward journey. But right now-at the
beginning-let us train ourselves in the midst of our work to remain at peace
and learn to meditate a little. To start with, let karma, devotion and
meditation be practised together. These are not supposed to one another but are
complementary. In the end all will drop off one by one and the samadhi of
dhyana alone will remain. When we start our inward journey we must keep this
goal of samadhi before us. So every day, having aside all other work, we must
practise meditation for some time. But all the same we must not dismiss rituals
as meaningless or as a part of superstition. We must keep performing them. It
is only when our impurities are washed away thus that we will realise the
self-luminous Reality in us.
Samsare
Kim Saram”
In his
Prasnottara-Ratnamalika, our Acarya asks: "Samsare kim saram?” (What is
the meaning of worldly existence?) He responds to the question himself:"
You asked the question thus. Keep asking again and again. That is the meaning
of samsara”. ("Bahusah abhi vicintyamanam idam eva.") "What is
the purpose of my birth? Why was I born? “You must ask yourself this question
again and again. You must also have some concern about whether you will reach
the goal of your birth. "Why do you keep sinning?" is a problem that
always worries us. "Why do you get angry? And why do we desire this and
that? Can't we remain always happy without sinning, without anger and
desire?" We do not seem to know the answers to these questions. The fruit
is formed from the flowers, first in the tender unripe form and finally in the
mellow form. The flowers smell fragrant to the nose and the ripe fruit tastes
sweet to the palate. The mellow or ripe fruit is full of sweetness. How did the
fruit taste before it became ripe and sweet? The flower was bitter, the tender
fruit was astringent, the unripe fruit was sour and the fruit that is mellow
now is sweet. Peace means sweetness. When the heart is all sweetness all
attachments disappear. There is attachment only so long as there is sourness. When
you pluck an unripe fruit from a tree there is sap in the stem as well as in
the fruit. It means that the tree is not willing to part from the fruit and
vice versa. But when the sweetness is full, all the ties will be snapped and
the fruit will drop to earth by itself. The tree releases the fruit or the
fruit frees itself from the tree. The separation is without any tears and happy
[there is no sap]. Similarly, step-step by step, a man must become wholly sweet
like a mellow fruit and free himself happily from the tree of samsara, the
cycle of births and deaths. Desire, anger, and so on, are necessary stages in
out development like bitterness, astrigency, sourness and sweetness in the
growth of a fruit. When we are subiect to urges like desire and anger we will
not be to free ourselves fully from them but we must keep asking ourselves why
we become subject to these urges and passions. We must constantly wonder
whether they serve any purpose. If we do not remain vigilant about them we will
become victims of their deception. There must be astringency when it is time
for astringency and sourness when it is time for sourness. But neither
astringency nor sourness must remain a permanent state. Just as a tender fruit
becomes mellow, we too must become mellow and sweet. If we do so there is no
need to seek liberation on our own. If we are as we should be in the different
stages of our life, liberation shall come in the natural process. On the other
hand, if we make and effort at an inappropriate time [if we force ourselves] it
will be like making the fruit prematurely ripe. Such a fruit will not taste
sweet. We should not, however, remain always in the same state as the one in
which we find ourselves today, indifferent to everything. At the same time,
when our bag of sins still to be emptied, we cannot thirst for the supreme
knowledge. Instead, let us keep doing our duty hoping that we will realise the
supreme knowledge, if not now, after many a birth. Let us adhere to the dharma
prescribed by the Vedas. If we do so, we will proceed gradually to the supreme
jnana. Now we are aware only of outward matters and outward disguises. So let
us start with the outward rites of our religion and the outward symbols and
signs. By degrees then let us go to the inner reality through the different
stages from that of the tender fruit to the fruit that is mellow and sweet.
Inward
and Outward
I have
stated again and again that the people must perform the rites handed down to
them from forefathers, that they must adhere to the practices pertaining to the
tradition to which they belong and they must wear the symbols appropriates to
the same, like the holy ashes or Tiruman, the rudraksa, etc. Some people hold
the view that all that is needed is conduct and character, that conduct is a
matter of the mind, that religious customs are but part of the external life.
In truth, however, your outward actions and the symbols worn by you outwardly
have an impact on the inner life. There is a relationship between bodily work
and inner feelings. Let me illustrates this truth. One day, unexpectedly, a man
comes to know he was won prize in a lottery, say, one lakh rupees. His joy
knows no bounds, but it makes its own impact on his body. He becomes so excited
that his breathing itself stops for a moment and he faints. "A particular
feeling creates a specific change in the process of breathing". From this
practical observation yoga develops lessons in breathing to create healthy and
noble feeling and urges. Often the outward appearance reflects the inner
feelings. When you are angry your eyes become red, your lips quiver. When you
are sorrowful your eyes become moist and you shed tears. If you are happy you
are agape, showing all your teeth. Thus there is a definite connection between
the body and the mind, between the boy and the inner feelings. Based on this
fact, the wise have devised yogic postures that are calculated to nurture
particular Atmic qualities. Will soldiers be less valorous if they do not wear
their uniforms? All over the world members of the defence services wear
uniforms and it is claimed that they keep them fighting fit and inspire courage
in them. The symbols worn outside, the samskaras performed outwardly, are
inwardly beneficial. If you think that it is all a disguise so it will be. You
must resolve to wear the symbols in all sincerity and perform the rites too.
Then they will truly cause purity within. Outward action helps you inwardly. It
perhaps natural that I should give importance to samskaras, to the custom of
wearing symbols like the sacred ashes, rudraksa, etc. After all, I am the head
of Matha and you will come to me only if I wear all these. You will give me
money for the conduct of the Matha. So all these symbols that I wear serve a
purpose in my case. But your case is different. You have your own means of
livelihood and you may be able to perform samsakaras even more sincerely than I
do and make yourself pure by wearing the symbols of our religion. Let us wear
the signs that remind us of the Supreme Truth. Let us perform the rites that
keep us away from evil. Let us be of good conduct and character and cleans our
consciousness. And let us meditate on the Ultimate Reality, experience It
inwardly, realise bliss.
Do We
Need Rituals
Some
ask me whether religious functions, puja, etc, are not "mere"
rituals. Atmic awareness is an inward experience. As for rituals they are
outward actions. The question is how rituals will help in experiencing the
Self. Rituals are indeed not necessary for one who has realised the Self. But
we must put the question to ourselves whether we have truly realised It,
whether we are mature enough for realisation, whether we have become inwardly
pure. Were we honest we would admit that we are far from having become mature
for awareness of the Self. By taking many births, by performing many works and
by the vasana of previous lives, we have concealed the bliss of knowing the
Self. By conducting good rites, and by associating ourselves with noble
objects, we have to banish the evil habits sticking to us from our past lives.
Then there will be an end to karma itself and we will embark on Atmic inquiry.
Until then we have to perform what are called "mere" rituals. The
proper thing for ordinary people is to conduct all the rites mentioned in the
sastras. The benefits obtained from them may be seen in practice. When a person
takes care to go through the rites strictly in the manner prescribed in the
canonical texts, he will gain one-pointedness of mind. This should be of
immense help to him in contemplating the Self later. And the desire to follow
the sastras in all aspects of life will mean that he will be brought under a certain
discipline. When we conduct rites according to the sastras our determination
and will power will be strengthened. Since we subordinate our views to the
injunctions of the scriptures, we will cultivate the qualities of humility and
simplicity. So what do we gain by performing "mere" rituals? We will
acquire onepointedness of mind, discipline, non-attachment, will power,
humility. On the whole it will help us to live a moral life. Without moral
conduct there can never be Atmic inquiry and Atmic experience. Hindu Dharma The
Buddha did not prescribe any Vedic rites. But he too laid stress on morality
and discipline. The Pancasila that Nehru often spoke about is of the utmost
importance to the Buddhists. The Buddha points to the value of morality without
the performance of Vedic rites. What about the Purvamimamsakas? They believe
that Vedic rites are of the utmost importance and that is no need to worry
about God. In our sanatana dharma, however, there is a weaving together of
rites, the good conduct and discipline arising out of them, devotion to Isvara
and finally knowledge of the Self. Morality does not arise by itself. If you
want milk you must keep a cow. If you keep a cow you will get not only milk but
also cow dung. Then there will come up a haystack. When you keep the cow called
karma you will not only derive not only morality and good conduct from it but
also something that you feel is not wanted, that is cow dung. When you keep a
cow must keep the place free from cow dung - that is a part of commonsense or
wisdom. It is in this manner that you must obtain the real benefits from
religious rites. If rituals are not necessary for true Atmic knowledge, even
the murti called Isvara is not necessary for the same. But we can dispense with
rituals and Isvara only when we reach a high plane of knowledge. At first
Isvara is very much necessary for our inward journey and there are so many
reasons for it. I will tell you one. We need an entity that exemplifies all
that is good. Have we not for ages together thought of Isvara as such a one,
one who represents all virtues and all auspicious qualities. When we mention
the word "Isvara" we at once think of him as one without any evil. If
anything or anyone combines beauty, compassion, power and enlightenment to the
full it must be Isvara. It is a psychological principle that we become that
which we keep thinking of. By meditating on Isvara's manifold auspicious
qualities our own undesirable qualities will give place to good ones. There are
many benefits that flow from rituals, puja, etc. One of them is that they help
to make us good. They are also of value in taking us to the path of workless
yoga and the inward quest.
Karma
is the Starting Point of Yoga
People
usually think that yoga means no more than controlling the breath and sitting
stone-like. The literal meaning of the word is "joining",
"uniting". All through our life's journey we have to join ourselves
to various objects. But such joining is no permanent. That is why the mind
remains unsteady. If we are joined to an object without the least possibility
of being seperated from it, it is yoga in the true sense. The root of the minds
of all of us is the one Paramatman. Yogins control their breath to turn their
mind to this prime root object. The root that gives rise to thoughts is the
same as the root that gives rise to the breath. So if the breath is fixed on
the root, the mind too will be absorbed in it. The opposite of yoga is
"viyoga". When the man dies we say that he has attained viyoga. The
Lord says in the Gita that a particular kind of viyoga is itself yoga. What is
it? If you keep away sorrow, that is if sorrow does not attach itself to you,
you have the yoga of disconnection (Tam viyad dukha-samyoga-viyogam
yogasamjnitam. ) What we normally understand to be pleasure in a worldly sense
is truly sorrow. All experiences that creates separation from the Paramatman
are sorrow. It is because the citta or consciousness is unstill that we undergo
sorrow and happiness. These disappear when the mind is still. To make the mind
pure it to train it in one-pointedness. This is the mean of yogic perfection.
To start with, all will be able to control their breath like yogins. If we are
absorbed in a worthy subject, in some good work, our mind will remain untainted
to some extent. If we try to control our mind in one go, so to speak, it will
free itself and wander in all directions. If we keep doing some noble work or
take an interest in some noble subject the mind is less likely to become
unstill. In the old days they used to wear what is called an arikandam, that is
an iron ring, round the neck to keep themselves disciplined and live according
to the sastras. In the same way we must wear an arikandam to keep the mind from
going astray. To be involved in good actions is itself a kind of arikandam.
Performing sacrifices, observing fasts and vows, building great temple towers,
digging ponds, etc, were a means in the past to cleanse the mind by making it
one-pointed. In the midst of such good work also one experiences difficulties,
even humiliation, but one should not be daunted by criticism or obstacles. This
itself becomes the means of mental purification. Then come pranayama,
meditation, etc. The kazhakkodi keeps rolling without gathering any dirt. If
you smear some ashes on it they will not stick to it. Like the kazhakkodi we
too must not be affected by pain or pleasure and keep journeying towards the
Paramatman and becoming one with It. Such union is called yoga - it is our
original as well as ultimate state. In between we somehow become different.
That is why we do not understand that ultimate and original state now. To reach
that state we must make a beginning with the performance of rites.
Karmayoga
Arjuna
asks [Krsna] whether it is not a sin to wage war and slay friends and relatives
in battle. It seems to us a natural and reasonable question. Sri Krsna
Paramatman gives an answer in the Bhagvadgita. An action that outwardly seems
to be bad and cruel need not necessarily be sinful. Acts that apparently cause
pain to others may have to be committed for the good of the world and there is
no sin in them. Then what action is sinful and what is meritorious? The Lord
answers this question also. Only such deeds as are motivated by desire and
hatred can be sin. Those performed for the well being of the world without
being impelled by desire and hatred are meritorious even though they may seen
to be cruel. The question arises: Is there any action that does not spring from
desire or hatred? I will give an example. When a judge awards punishment to a
man found guilty of crime is he driven by desire or hatred? His sentence may
seem cruel but it is indeed for the Atmic well-being of the accused himself. If
one's son is suffering from advanced insanity does one not keep him in chains?
Is that sinful? It is for the son's good as well for the good of others who
might come to harm by him. It is this manner that the sastras have kept us
bound, ordering us to do this and that. It is for our benefit as well as the
world's, says Sri Krsna, that we must live according to the tenets of the
sastras: "Tasmatcchastram prmanam te karyakarya-vyvasthitau" (the
sastras are the authority as to what you must do and must not). The Gita today
enjoys wide esteem. Even people who have no respect for our religious customs
and traditions - researchers, Western scholars, etc - speak in praise of it.
They interpret variously the Gita's teaching on the svadharma. There is no room
for doubt about what the Gita says about svadharma: It is the karma allotted to
a man by the sastras. When there is neither selfish desire nor hatred, there
will be nothing unpleasant about any kind of work. One can then be always happy
doing one's allotted work. The reason for desire and hatred is ego-feeling,
ahamkara. When there is no ego-sense, considerations of high and low, or
inferior or superior, will be found meaningless. We will kept doing our work
happily as a matter of duty and thus also contribute to the world's happiness.
The Karmayoga taught by the Gita is doing one's work without ahamkara, in a
spirit of dedications to the Lord. This tradition of desireless action that
purifies our inner being has existed in this land from the Vedic period. Sri
Krsna Paramatman presents it to us as a boon encased in a handy casket. We must
keep applying this teaching with ardour in every work and action of our life.
Every time we do a work we must ask ourselves: "How do we benefit from
this work? Will it bring us fame? Are we moved by desire or hatred? Are we
being partial to somebody in carrying it out?" If there is any of these
elements associated with our action it must be considered sinful even if it
seems exalted to the outside world. If we do something on our own, dictated by
our own desire, there will be much wrong-doing in accomplishing it. So, as Sri
Krsna says, all our actions must be founded on the sastras. If everybody acts
with equal love for all and with a pure heart there will be neither any rivalry
nor any quarrel in society. The world then will be filled with joy.
Dharma - Common to All
How to
Control the Mind
What
is the obstacle to one-pointed meditation? The answer is the unstill mind. All
problems are caused by the mind, by the desires arising in it. It is not easy
to control the mind and keep it away effectively from desire. If we ask the
mind to think of an object, it seems to obey us for a moment, but soon it takes
its own course, wandering off. When I speak to you about meditation and
tranquillity, for a moment your mind will perhaps become still and you will be
happy. But in a trice it will go astray and the calm you experienced for a few
seconds will give place to unquietness. If you bid your mouth to keep shut, it
obeys you for a brief moment. Similarly, if you close your eyes asking them not
to see anything, they shut themselves off from the outside world for some
moments. But try as you might to tell your mind not to think of anything, it
will not listen to you. The mind must be kept under control. Thinking and
non-thinking must be governed by your will. Only then can we claim that it is
under our control, that we are masters of our own consciousness. Lunatics are
usually referred to as people with no control over their minds. In fact none of
us have any control over the mind. A madman keeps blabbering. But what about
us? We let the mind go freely to keep blabbering inwardly. Do you know what it
means to have mental control? Suppose you are suffering from a severe pain. If
you ask your mind not to feel the pain, it shall not feel it in obedience to
you [that is you will not feel the pain]. Even if a tiger comes face to face
with you and growls you will feel no fear if you ask your mind not to be afraid
of the beast. Now we keep crying for no reason. If the mind is under control we
will keep smiling even if there is cause for much sorrow. And under the gravest
of provocations it will not be roused to anger and will remain calm. First we
must train our mind not to keep wandering. One way of doing it is to apply it
to good activities. When oil falls in a steady flow, without spraying, it is
called "tailadhara". The mind must be gathered together and made
steady. It must be accustomed to think of noble and exalted objects like the
Lord. Eventually, the very act of "thinking" will cease and we will
dissolve in Isvara to become Isvara. Yoga is controlling the mind in this
manner. Before we pass on, we must find a way to control the mind. Otherwise,
we will be born again and we will be subject to the constant unquietness of the
mind again. So we must use the opportunity of this birth itself to subdue the
mind even while we are in the midst of so much that can rouse our desire or
anger. A man who has succeeded in bridling his mind thus is called a
"yukta" by the yogins. He is a "sukhin", one who truly
experiences bliss, so says Sri Krsna You must not turn away from yoga thinking
that it is meant only for people like the sages. Who needs medicine? The sick.
We suffer from manovyadhi, mental sickness. So we must take the medicine that
cures it. There are two different ways of mastering the mind- the first is
outward (bahiranga) and the second is inward(antaranga). We must have recourse
to both. The Matha has a cartman and a cook. Their work is outward in nature.
Then there are those who prepare the wicks of the lamps, gather flowers for the
puja - they are "inward" workers. Both types are needed for the
functioning of the Matha. By employing both the outward and inward means, the
mind must first be applied to good things onepointedly and eventually lead to a
state in which it does not think of anything at all. The outward means
consists, for example, of sandhyavandana, sacrifices, charity and so on. The
best inward means is meditation. There are five inward (antaranga) means to aid
meditation. They are ahimsa (nonviolence), satya (truthfulness), asteyam
(non-stealing), sauca (cleanliness) and indriya-nigraha [subduing the senses,
if not obliterating them]. To practise ahimsa is to imbue the mind with love
for all and not even think of harming others. Asteyam means not coveting other
people's goods. For satya, or truthfulness, to be complete one's entire being,
including body, mind and speech, must be involved in its practice. Sauca is
hygiene, observing cleanliness by bathing, maintaining ritual purity, etc.
Indriyanigraha implies limits placed on sensual enjoyment. "The eyes must
not see certain things, the ears must not hear certain things and the mouth
must not eat certain things"-restrictions with regard to what you can see,
listen to, eat and do with your body. The body is meant for sadhana, for Atmic
discipline. The senses must be "fed" only to the extent necessary to
keep the body alive. These five dharmas are to be practiced by all Hindus
without any distinction of caste or community.
Ahimsa
According
to the Manusmriti, ahimsa is the foremost among the dharmas that are common to
all. It is included in the yoga of mind control. Ahimsa means much more than
non-injury; it implies not doing harm to others even by thought or word. By
nature none of us wants to cause any hurt to other people. But if others do us
harm we want to retaliate in anger. Suppose one of our children sets fire to
our house in all innocence. We do not punish it but try to extinguish the fire
and thereafter take care to see that the child is kept away from fire and other
dangerous objects. We must learn to think that all those who cause us pain are
like this child. If a person tries to hurt us, we must lovingly prevent him
from doing so. We must not bear any illwill against him nor think of
retaliating. This is true ahimsa. The practice of ahimsa contributes greatly to
the yoga of mind control. The mind is like a demon. But see what wonders the
demon- the vetalaaccomplished for Vikramaditya after he had been brought under
control. The mind will do us unlimited good if it is made subservient to us. Anjaneya
[Hanuman] acquired his immense strength and was able to perform so many great
and good deeds only because he had conquered his mind. The mind's power is
immeasurable. All the cosmos is the work of the Supreme Goddess and in this
creation of hers even the mind of a tiny ant pervades the entire universe. Many
great men, many yogins, have stated that they were able to control their minds
by adhering to true ahimsa. When we practise ahimsa, anger will naturally give
way, the mind will become clear and will easily be controlled. Though the chief
aim of non-violence the control of the mind, there is another unexpected
benefit that it brings. It is called "avantara prayojana". All of you
came to the Matha to see the puja. But with that you listened to the nagasvaram
music and saw persons whom you had not seen for long - and now you listen to my
discourse. All these belong to the category of avantara prayojana. Thus if a
man practises true nonviolence (by body, mind and speech), he will be rewarded
with a benefit that he had not expected. In his presence all creatures will
forget their illwill and cease to cause hurt to any other creature. Ahimsa-
pratisthayam tatsannidhau vairatyagah -yogasutra. -- Yogasutra, 2. 35 The minds
of even cruel people will be transformed in the presence of men practising
utter ahimsa: in other words when a man is full of love he can make other
people also loving and this is an avantara prayojana. A sannyasin must observe
total non-violence. He must not even pluck a leaf from a tree and must not do
violence to plants by cooking them. It is because of the rule of absolute
non-violence enjoined on him that there is an interdiction on his performing
rites in the sacred fire. Tending a fire for the conduct of a ritual might
unwittingly make us responsible for the destruction of some insects. It is
because the sannyasin has no Agni ceremony that when he dies his body is not
cremated but interred. When he is initiated into sannyasa he takes a vow that
he shall never be the cause of fear to any creature. "Ahimsa paramo
dharmah" (Non-violence is the supreme dharma). Buddhism and Jainism impose
total non-violence on their followers. Not so our religion except in the case
of ascetics. In Hinduism an exception to the general dharma of non-violence is
made in the case of a righteous or just war and in a sacrifice in which
sometimes animals are killed. It is to fetch the divine powers to earth and to
appease them that animals are sacrificed in yajnas. It is our belief that the
animals so sacrificed will attain to a high state that they cannot otherwise
through their own efforts. Altogether it means the good of the animals and the
welfare of the world. In a war, heroes of the army sacrifice themselves in the
cause of the nation. Is it not better to lay down one's life for the sake of
others than fatten oneself doing nothing? It is easy to claim oral allegiance
to the principle of non- injury but difficult to practise the same. Quarrels
and disputes are inevitable in the workaday world. In dealing with them action
that is apparently violent may have to be taken. In reality such action is not
regarded as violent. The intention or purpose is important here, not the action
itself. Certain types of violence are justified according to the sastras and
not considered sinful, because such violence is committed not for our personal
delight but in pursuance of our duty towards the society: the offering of an
animal in sacrifice, sentencing a murderer to death, killing an enemy in war.
If a religion makes the practice of non-violence universally applicable, there
will be problems. Obviously, all cannot practise it at all times. So those who
find it not practicable to follow this rule of ahimsa are made liable to sin.
Our religion has taken a more realistic view on the question. As we have seen,
Buddhism imposes total non- violence on its followers. But what do we see in
practice? In all those lands where Buddhism has a hold there are armies that
take part in fighting. Besides, almost without exception, everybody is a meat-eater
there. If a great dharma or principle is made common to all, in the end it is
likely to lead to a situation in which no one will respect it in practice. In
our religion- to repeat- the rule of absolute non-violence is meant only for
sannyasins. Following their example, Brahmins, Vaisnavas in regions like
Gujarat and Sivas in the South like the Vellalas and Komutti Cettis practise
ahimsa. Without being bound by any sastric injunction they have voluntarily
adopted the principle and practised it from generation to generation.
Influenced by the example of the sattva guna of ascetics these communities have
become vegetarians on their own. And, following their example and without being
compelled to do so, other castes too abstain from meat on days likes the new
moon, on the day of a sraddha, and days sacred to the various deities. When a
principle is imposed only on a few, since it is difficult to make it universal
it becomes an ideal for others to whom it may not formally apply: they try to
practise it as far as they can. Non-violence is a samanya dharma( a dharma
common to all) in Hinduism. It is kept as an ideal though, on occasion,
adherence to it is not practicable. In the Vedic dharma the definition of
ahimsa is the absence of ill-feeling in all action.
Truthfulness
Truthfulness
means mind and speech being well integrated. The wise say that speech being at
variance with the mind is untruthfulness. Vangmanasyoh aikarupyam satyam God
has given man the gift of speech so that he may give expression to his thoughts
and feelings. If what we speak is at variance with what we think (with our
mind) God will take away the faculty of speech from us in our next birth- that
is we will be born in the animal kingdom. There are, as we have seen before,
exceptions made in our sastras to the rule of absolute non-violence: in waging
a war to preserve dharma, in offering animals in sacrifice. Are there similar
exceptions to the rule of truthfulness? You will perhaps say none. But, as a
matter of fact, there are. In a locality there must be a number of undesirable
characters. Let us suppose that a certain citizen is annoyed with such
characters and gives open expression to his anger. "He committed this
outrage. That other man is guilty of such and such a crime, “he keeps recounting
the misdeeds of the bad elements. In doing so he is being truthful, that is his
speech and mind are in accord. But by giving expression to his feelings no
purpose is served for neither he not the community is benefited. It is a futile
kind of accord - that of his speech and mind - and it cannot be called
truthfulness. Take the example of another person. He is full of evil thoughts
and, if he gives expression to them, can he be called truthful? No. So
truthfulness, now we see, is not merely accord between mind and speech. It
means voicing good thoughts, thoughts that are beneficial and are liked by
people: "Satyr bhuahitam priyam." Doing good through thought, word
and deed is truthfulness. All that does ill is untruthfulness. It is not enough
that you speak to a man what is good for him. You must speak with affection and
the one to whom your words are addressed must find them acceptable. If you
speak harshly nobody will listen to you even if you mean well. Thus words that
serve no purpose do not constitute a truth. Your speech must be beneficial and,
at the same time, capable of bringing happiness to the man to whom it is
addressed. This is truthfulness. The wise say: "May he speak the truth.
May his speech be pleasing. May he not speak the truth that is unpleasing. And
may he not speak an untruth that is pleasing." Satyam brutapriyam bruyan-
Na bruyatsatyamaptiyam Priyam ca nanrtam bruyad- A mind that is subject to
desire and anger will not give rise to words that bespeak affection and cause
well-being. Truthful words that create good are the product of a mind free from
desire and anger. What is truth then? Thought and speech must be in accord; the
mind must be serene; and the words spoken must do good to the speaker as well
as the listener. For a man rooted in truth there is an avantara prayojana, an
incidental benefit, gained from his speech. Since such a person habitually
speaks the truth, his words will become the truth. Such a man will never
deliberately utter a lie. But, if unwittingly or out of ignorance, he commits
an error while speaking, that error will turn out to be the truth. I will tell
you a story to illustrate this. In Tirukkadavur, in Tanjavur district, there
was a great devotee of Amba called Abhiramibhatta. He would often go into an ecstasy
of devotion to the goddess. During such times he would speak like one mad.
Someone poisoned the ears of the raja Sarabhoji against him.
"Abhiramibhatta is a drunkard," he told the ruler. "His devotion
is a mere pretence." Sarabhoji wanted to find out the truth. So he went to
see Abhiramibhatta in Tirukkadavur and asked him: "What day of the moon is
it today?" The Bhatta was then lost in devotional joy and, thinking only
of the radiant face of Amba which was like the moon, said that it was a full
moon day. Actually it was the new moon. The raja concluded that what he had
heard about the Bhatta must be true and said scornfully: "Is that so? Let
us look up and see whether the full moon has risen." At that very moment
the full moon did appear in the sky. Abhiramibhatta was steeped in
truthfulness. By mistake he had spoken an untruth but Amba made it the truth by
hurling her ear stud into the sky causing it to shine like the full moon. The
blessings as well as the curses of great men come true because of the force of
their innate and habitual truthfulness. This is the "incidental
benefit" they derive from their habit of truthfulness. But truthfulness
must not be practised with the deliberate intention that what one speaks must
come true. Power such as this is earned unintentionally and unconsciously. A
man will purify himself completely if he performs the forty samskaras and
adheres to principles like non-violence, truthfulness, noncovetousness,
cleanliness and also controls his senses. He will then develop the maturity and
wisdom to find out who in truth he is, who Isvara is and what the Ultimate
Reality is.
Puja
Every
family must perform puja to Isvara. Those who find it convenient to do so may
conduct elaborate types of puja after receiving proper initiation into them.
Others need perform only a brief puja, not lasting more than ten minutes or so.
Office goers must offer at least this brief worship. The sacred bell must ring
in every home. Images must be installed to worship Siva, Amba, Visnu, Vinayaka,
and Surya. This is called "pancayatana puja". According to one
custom, no graven images [images with limbs] are used but instead natural
objects to represent the five deities. The "bana-linga" for Siva is
obtained from the Omkara -kunda of the Narmada River. The svarnamukhi stone for
Ambika (it has a golden streak on it) is to be taken from the bed of the
Svarnamukhi river in Andhra Prades. The symbol of Vishnu, salagrama, is
obtained from the Gandaki River in Nepal. The crystal stone for surya is got
from Vallam, near Tanjavur. The sonabhadra stone for Vinayaka is obtained from
the Sone River, a tributary of the Ganga. These five stones are symbolic of the
unity of India. None of these five stones has eyes, nose, ears, etc. Since they
have no corners that become untidy, they are easy to bathe and dry. Being small
they do not occupy much space. No big puja hall or room is necessary. A small
casket is enough. Pancayatana puja was revived by Sankara Bhagavatpada. As the
creator of the Sanmata system (the worship of six deities)he added Subrahmanya
to the five. So with the five stones we may add a small spear to represent
Velayadah (Subrahmanya) who bears the spear. Not much effort is needed for the
puja. If you have the will, it could be performed wherever you happen to be. At
home when you do the puja you have to present to the deities cooked rice called
"maha-naivedya". The Lord has created the entire cosmos for our sake.
Our sense organs take delight in the various objects in creation. All that
gives us joy, all that is beneficial in creation, must be offered to the Lord
[symbolically] before being partaken of by us. When we offer any food as
naivedya to Him, do we really give it away to Him? We just place it before Him
and then partake of it ourselves. Some ask, scornfully, whether the Lord
himself eats what is offered to Him. "Nivedana"does not mean making
the Lord really "eat" what is offered. He does not have to eat. Puja
is meant to make us inwardly pure and the Lord does not have anything to gain
from it. "Nivedayami" means "I am making it know to you
(informing you)" and does not mean "I am feeding you". You must
speak thus to Isvara:"O Lord, in your compassion you have given us this
food." Then you must eat the food thus offered, thinking of Him. Without
His grace how does the rice grow? Experts may conduct research and write big
tomes on rice. But are they capable of making one grain of rice? What is called
synthetic rice is made out of materials already created by Isvara. So all that
seems to be made of man must be finally traced to God's creation. To enjoy what
he has given us without first presenting it to Him would be tantamount to
thieving. He who is present everywhere must be present where we want Him to be
present so that He may be grasped by us. Whatever the material out of which His
image of symbol is made-stone, earth, copper- he will come to us in that
material and in that image or symbol. He will do so out of His compassion and
He has the power to do so. We would have no need for him otherwise. The Lord
must be worshipped in every home. He must be invoked and it must be made known
to Him that we are using nothing but what he has made over as a gift to us. If
we keep doing so, we will in due course have the wisdom not to use in puja
things not fit to be offered to Him. We ourselves will come to possess good
qualities.
Philanthropy
[In
the chapter entitled, "Sesame and Water: Where do They Go?", the
Paramaguru spoke of the debt to be paid to our fathers, our duty to worship
Paramesvara as well as to feed the creatures of the earth. He stated that
Tiruvalluvar also spoke of the same dharma in his "Kural":
"Tenpulattar deivam, virundu, okkal tan enru angu aimbulattaru ombal
talai."] Here (in the foregoing quotation)is one good proof that
Tiruvalluvar respected the authority of the Vedas. Some suggest that he did not
belong to the Vedic religion and that he was a Jaina or a Buddhist. And some
claim that he transcended all religions. It is also suggested that he openly
condemned sacrifices in which animals are killed. In support of their view they
quote a stanza from the Kural. [The Paramaguru's comment on the Kural passage
is contained in Chapter 23, Part Five.] Tiruvalluvar who composed his Kural,
with its universal appeal, was not an atheist opposed to the Vedic dharma. What
he refers to as virundu is the same as the Vedic manusyayajna. Every morning a
handful of rice (uncooked) must be set apart for the poor. All the families
must do this without fail every day. The rice thus kept must be collected from
house to house, from quarter to quarter, cooked offered to the deity of the
local temple as naivedya and then distributed among the poor. With the handful
of rice set apart for the poor, keep just one paisa also. The paisa collected
from each family would be sufficient to buy salt, chilli powder, etc, to mix
with the rice to make it more palatable. It would also serve to buy firewood
and to pay the rent for the vessels. To carry out such a scheme is to do a
great service to the poor - and to the Lord. Charity like this should encourage
temple going, not to speak of devotion. Since the food is first offered as
naivedya, it would mean that the poor will take it as prasada which will impart
them inner purity. Annadan or the gift of food is one kind of service of
paropakara. We talk of service to the poor, social service and so on. Today all
this is done with much fanfare and publicity. In the past the needy were served
naturally, without making any noise. Service comes under "purta-
dharma" and it includes digging wells and ponds for the public, feeding
the poor, building temples for the spiritual wellbeing of people, laying our
gardens. Excavating wells and ponds has been mentioned first. The importance of
this word may be gauged from such remarks in ordinary conversation:
"What’s he doing? Digging a well or something?"It is extremely
meritorious to excavate pond outside the village to slake the thirst of cattle.
All the people in a village must join together without the distinction of poor
and rich, high or low - work involving physical effort. It will incidentally
contribute to greater social harmony. With education we purify our
intelligence, with meditation we cleanse our mind, with sloka or poetry we
clarify our speech. How do we purify our body? By exerting ourselves in the
service of others. As we keep serving people in this way we will obtain inward
purity. When all take part in the work of digging a pond or well, without any
differences, without one man feeling superior to another or inferior to him,
our ego too will be dug away. More important than the water welling up in the
pond is the love welling up from our hearts. No outward show is needed in
social service; we must not make an exhibition of our work. Collect pieces of
glass scattered on the footpath and keep them away in a safe place; even this
service to people and a means of cleansing ourselves. We must try to please the
Lord with the very hands and feet that he has given us - we must do so by
serving others and by looking upon all as himself.
To
Serve Others is to Feel Blessed
A man
can be fortunate in many ways. But there is nothing that makes him more
fortunate than the opportunity he has of serving others. When we serve our
family we are not conscious of how we help it. We must learn to help people who
are not our kin - other families, our village or home town, our nation, indeed
all mankind. We have so many problems ourselves, we suffer so many hardships,
and we have so many worries and cares. We must not, however, mind serving
others in the midst of all our difficulties. We will forget our problems when
we are immersed in the work of helping others. There is a saying:"Feed
milk to your neighbour's child, your child will be nourished." The Lord
will raise us up from our troubles as we do good to others. However, it is not
with such considerations of profit that we must try to help people in
difficulties. We must not worry about how others will benefit from our work,
but consider how we will become naturally pure. Also, we must think of the
happiness we will experience by serving our fellow men. Service should not be
confined to mankind but must be extended to the animal kingdom. In the olden
days ponds were dug exclusively for cattle and stone pillars were installed
here and there for them to scratch themselves. Everyone must feed at least one
cow every day with a handful of grass. This is called "gograsam" and
this act is extolled in the sastras, "Grasam" means a mouthful and
the English word "grass" is derived from it. Conducting sacrifices,
offering oblations to the fathers and performing sraddha must be regarded as an
extension of the service we do in this world to the denizens of other worlds.
These rites must be gone through with the intoning of mantras. There must be
many others like us, many groups, who want to be engaged in social work. It
should be ideal if the efforts of all were brought together under one body of
like-minded members. Care must be taken that associations so formed do not
break up; they must be managed honestly with a proper enforcement of
discipline. Those who do philanthropic work must be men of courage and
enthusiasm who take praise and blame equally. You ought not to waste your time
in eating places displaying appetizing fare nor in establishments where
alluring objects are exhibited. Instead, you must spend your time in helping
others. You will ask whether it is wrong to spend a little time in gaiety in
the midst of life's worries and hardships. I should like to impress on you that
the happiness you find in helping others is not to be found in anything else.
Krsna Paramatman was playful, wasn't he? But all his playfulness was an outward
phenomenon for inwardly he served others all the time. How sportingly did he
save people from trouble and how many were the men who were helped by him. To
protect the cowherds the child Krsna lifted up the big Govardhana Mountain.
And, again, as a little child he danced on the hoods of the dreaded Kalinga
(Kaliya) that poisoned the Yamuna. It all seemed play, all the heroic acts he
performed to save the people of Gokula. Nobody sported like Krsna but at the
same time nobody served mankind like him. It was not worldly service alone that
he did. He served mankind by imparting jnana. As a preceptor of Arjuna and
Uddhava alike he taught great truths. All this he did with a smile, spreading
serenity everywhere. Whatever he did he did with utmost ease. Those who have
taken up the work of serving humanity must be inspired by his example. Among
the various incarnations of the Lord, the service rendered to humanity was the
greatest in that of Krsna. During the avatara of Rama, Anjaneya appeared as
seva (service) personified. We must be inspired by their example [of Krsna and
Hanuman] as we work for others; we must be unselfish like them and shun
publicity. We keep aloof from the outside world when we are ritually impure. We
must regard any day on which we fail to do any service to others as a day of
impurity. Paramesvara is the father of all creatures. By serving our fellow men
we serve the Lord. This is the message of Tirumular in his Tirumantiram;
Nadamada-k-koyil nambar-k-konriyil Padamada-k-koyil Bhagavarkadame It means:
Serving people is worshipping the Lord.
Making
all Creatures Happy
We
must not fail to perform sacrifices to the celestials, offer libations to our
fathers and perform sraddha. In the past, apart from these, our ancestors did
puja to the gods, fed guests and performed vaisvadeva which rite is meant for
all creatures. You must have some idea of these rites even if you do not
perform them. I will speak to you about vaisvadeva. To sustain ourselves, we
cause hurt to so many creatures, don't we? We take pride in keeping our house
clean but we forget that every household is a butchery. According to
dharmasastras it is not one butchery but five butcheries together. What are
these five? Pancasuna grhasthasya vartante harahah sada Khandani pesani culli
jalkumbha upaskarah Khandani is used to cut vegetables- it stands for one type
of butchery. Vegetables also do have life. The second butchery is represented
by the grinding our pounding stone. We mercilessly grind corn, pulses, etc, in
it. Here an answer must be given to objections raised by meat-eaters about
vegetarian food. They tell us:"Like the goats, cows and fowl that we eat,
vegetables and cereals also have life." True. Though there is no
difference in kind between them, there is a difference in the degree of
violence done to vegetables and animals. Plants have life and feelings like
humans but they do not have the sensation of pain to the same degree as animals
and birds have. This has been scientifically established. Also, but for certain
leafy vegetables which we uproot to be prepared as food, most other vegetables
are obtained from plants without killing them: it is like removing our nails or
hair. The plant suffers only a little pain. Pain even to this degree will not
be caused if we eat the fruits of these plants after they drop ripe. As for the
cereals they are harvested only after the crop is ripe and dry. There is one
more argument in favour of vegetarianism. Now only certain types of meat like
beef are eaten. Horsemeat is not usually eaten. During World War I or II, when
the question arose as to whether the soldiers could be fed horsemeat, the
non-vegetarians themselves opposed the idea. People who think it civilized to
eat birds and animals condemn tribes in some remote land who eat human flesh as
barbarous and call them cannibals. We must tell meat-eaters who remind us that
vegetables also have life. "Yes, but when it comes to violence, are all
creatures the same? Why do you make a difference between animal flesh and human
flesh? Similarly, we make a distinction between plants and animals.
Vegetarianism also promotes sattvic qualities. "Unavoidably, for the sake
of existence, we have to keep at home instruments of butchery like the
khandani, pesani, etc. The third butchery is represented by the culli or the
kitchen fire. Many insects perish in the cooking fire. An ant crawls about the
oven or fireplace and is burnt. Sometimes when we keep a pot on the floor or the
shelf an insect or two get crushed. In the summer insects come seeking wet
places, places for example where vessels are kept. The water-pot is also
included among the objects of butchery. Then there is the upaskara, the
broomstick. Aren't many tiny insects killed as we sweep the floor? Thus there
are five instruments or objects of butchery in our home. We must not cause harm
even to those creatures that hurt us. But what do we do? We cause pain to, or
kill, even harmless creatures. It is sad to think that to live, to sustain
ourselves, we have to keep hurting so many living things. But it all seems
unavoidable. We do not kill deliberately. There is an expiation for the sin
committed unwittingly. It is the prayascitta of the "vaisvadeva". We
perform this function to ask the Lord to forgive us our sin of having caused
the destruction of various creatures and to pray for their happiness in
afterlife. Vaisvadeva is meant for the excommunicated and for all creatures of
earth like dogs, crows, insects, all. This rite absolves us of many a sin. The
pancha-mahayajnas were conducted for eons by the sages, by the children of
Brahma. All performed them from the hoary past until the time of our
grandfathers. The five great sacrifices are to be performed uninterruptedly
until the deluge. But we have had the "good fortune" of having broken
this tradition. Worse, we have deprived future generations of the benefits to
be derived from them. I have dealt with a variety of rites. Perform at least
those you can without prejudice to your office or professional work. If you
fail to do so you must be regretful and make amends for the same.
Towards
Mental Purity
There
are a number of simple rites the performance of which will free you from inner
impurities. From generation to generation our forefathers performed them and
earned happiness and contentment. We must follow in their footsteps. We do not
have to go in search of any new way of life, any new doctrine or belief. We can
learn from the great men of our past who have left us lessons not only in Atmic
matters but in the conduct of family and social life. For instance, kinship and
friendship in their time were based on high principles. When there was a
marriage or obsequial ceremony all friends and relatives came forward to help.
It was cultured behaviour at its best and it was not based on any empty outward
show. People then were truly and sincerely interested in helping the needy and
the poor. At weddings they gave a little cash to the bride's parents, five or
ten rupees, and the burden of those who conducted the marriage was lightened.
When everybody pays a little to the needy, the donor does not feel the pinch
but the donee has a tidy sum with which to celebrate a marriage or perform an
obsequial ceremony. Among relatives in the past there was not much gap between
the rich and the poor. And the rich man helped his poor relatives. All this is
part of dharma. The man who helps purifies himself more than the man who is
helped. Now things have changed. The well-to-do do not help their poor
relatives. Annadana(gift of food) was part of the noble tradition of the past.
How is it today? At present too the well-to-do feed people, but with this
difference that those fed are also well-to-do like them. When they give
parties, banquets, etc, a great deal of money and material is spent in this
manner. Where is the room for dharma or mental purity in all this? A party is
given not with any noble intention but to promote one's selfish interests. The
man who gives it thinks that he is practicing deception on the invitees. But
the invitees, however, knew that the host has no true feelings of affection for
them. The host and the guest thus deceive one another. Altogether parties and
toasts are nothing but part of modern art of deception and have nothing to do
with the cleansing of mind. If you help a poor man with food or material, you
and he are equally happy: there is affection on both sides. In parties, on the
contrary, there is even ill-will. Hatred and resentment are caused in the
hearts of havenots by the parties given by the haves [for the haves]. Among
relatives there should be no distinction between the rich and the poor. You
must not think that only the affluent can help the poor and earn merit. If you
are not well off you may serve others by helping them physically. All of you in
a locality may join together to dig a pond. All this contributes to inner
purity. How do you deserve the grace of Isvara? By constantly serving others,
by being compassionate to all creatures. Your mind, your consciousness, will
also become clear. In this pure consciousness of yours, in this pure citta, you
will see the image of the Lord. Do you see any image in turbid water? We have
made our minds muddy with impurities. We must make them limpid by being devoted
to the Lord and by serving mankind. Then Isvara will be within our grasp.
Fault-Finding
To live a life
inspired by dharma means coming under a certain discipline and following
certain rules of conduct. It is important for people to acquaint themselves with
these rules. It would be ideal if they lived according to them on their own
because to abide by them out of compulsion is not a matter of pride.
"Sampradaya" or tradition is something that has evolved naturally and
it is natural that people adhere to them. The customs and rules making up a
sampradaya are not all of them written down in the sastras. Anything laid down
as a law becomes a matter of compulsion. Nowadays everywhere people are asked
to "Do this" and "not to do that." Notices are displayed
about this and that. They are displayed even where I perform the puja (in the
Matha), notices that say, "Don't keep talking", "Don't wear
shirts", etc. When I speak thus and ask you not to do this or to do that,
I myself am guilty if offending against the good rule I just spoke about. When
I say, "Don't do", it becomes a law. I should speak to you thus:
"You think about it yourselves whether it is right to have such
notices." "Do not magnify the faults of others," say the wise. "But
if there is something good about a man speak appreciatively about it." I
myself, however, am bringing your faults into the open. But, to repeat, you
must not bring to light the drawbacks of others but only their good qualities.
See, even the crescent moon is cool and radiant. That is why Siva wears it in
his matted hair, makes its beauty known to the world. The same Siva swallowed
the terrible halahala poison concealing it from everyone, so says Dandin in one
of his poems. Pointing a finger at the faults of others or exaggerating them in
speech and writing has become the practice today. The more learned a man is,
the more eager he is to find fault with others. "Finding fault is indeed
the work of a vidvan," it is said. "The word vidvan itself is said to
mean a dosajna." But a dosajna is one who knows the faults of something or
somebody, not one who reveals them to the world or exaggerates them. If you
think a person has any drawbacks you must speak to him about them in a friendly
manner [so that he may correct himself] but not constantly harp on them and
expose them to the outside world. We must be worthy enough to speak about the
faults of others and we cannot take upon ourselves the role of an adviser when
we need to correct ourselves. Advice given by us then would be counterproductive.
If we tell a man what is wrong about him he might even feel boastful about it.
When are we fit to advise others? When we are worthy enough and when we know
that our word will have the desired effect. If we praise a person for his good
qualities he will have greater enthusiasm to cultivate them further. But there
should be restraint in praise too- praise indeed is a tricky thing. That is why
the wise say: "Isvara and the guru alone may be praised directly. Friends
and relatives, instead of being praised to their face, must be spoken of well
to others. You may praise a servant only after he has carried out the job
entrusted to him. (It is like patting a horse after a ride). You may never
praise your son."
Pratyakse guravah
stutyah Parokse mitrabandhavah Karyante dasabhrtyasca Na svaputrah kadacana
I have been finding fault with
you all the while. As I said fault finding is not an exercise to be welcomed
but the stanza just quoted frees me from any blame because it says that
children should not be praised and that you must tell them what is wrong with
them. So no fault can be ascribed to me for my having found fault with you.
Kama
It is
customary to speak of kama (desire) and krodha (anger) together. Krsna
Paramatman says in the Gita that desire and anger goad a man into sinful
action. When we intensely desire an object we try to get it by fair means or
foul. It is a deadly enemy, desire: it eggs us on to commit sin. Equally deadly
is anger. When we fail to get the object of our desire we turn our anger
against the man who, we believe was an obstacle. Unfulfilled desire becomes
anger. If we throw a rubber against the wall, it bounces- in other words it
returns to us. The ball thrown is desire and it is the same ball that becomes
anger as it bounces. The attack we believe we make on others in our anger is
actually an attack we make on ourselves-and we are hurt more than those we wanted
to hurt. When we are angry our whole body shakes. Anger indeed causes pain both
to the body and the mind and we make ourselves ugly when we are angry. You will
know the truth of this if you see a photograph taken when you are in foul mood.
Hunger is appeased by eating. But is fire assuaged in the same way? You keep
feeding it and it keeps devouring everything. Fire is bright but it chars all
that it consumes. Or, in other words, it turns everything black. That is why it
is called "krsnavartman". Kama or desire is similar. It flares up
like fire. The more it is fed the more it becomes hungry. Indeed kama blackens
our mind. When a desire is gratified there is joy for the moment, but soon it
goes in search of more "food" and the process we lose our peace of mind
and happiness and become victims of sorrow and anger. Sorrow and anger are two
forms of unrequited desire. If we think that those who are a hindrance to the
gratification of our desire are inferior to us, we turn our anger against them,
and if we think they are superior, all we do is to grieve within ourselves.
Anger is packed with more evil power than even desire. Naisadham, the story of
Nala, illustrates this truth beautifully. As King Kali makes his appearance,
desire and anger (kama and krodha) accompany him as his two army commanders.
The herald sings their praises. "There is no place that kama cannot gain
entry to. No, there is a place he cannot enter. It is the fortress in which
anger resides. This fortress is the heart of Durvasas. " Durvasas does not
know desire but he is subject to fits of anger. We must be extremely wary of
this terrible sinner called anger. A little thought will convince us that we
are not in the least qualified to be angry with anybody or to shout at anybody.
We are even more guilty than those against whom we turn in our anger. We know
this in our heart of hearts. Even if we are guiltless, before we rush to find
fault with someone, we must ask ourselves whether we would not have committed
the offence we think he is guilty of were we placed in the same circumstances
as he. We must try our best to keep anger always at a distance.
Are We
Worthy of Being Angry
Often
we find ourselves angry with some person or other. Anger is provoked in two
ways. When we see a man guilty of an offence we lose our temper. But we do not
pause to think whether we too are not like him. Even if we have not been guilty
of sinful deeds we must have had sinful thoughts. Perhaps we have reason to
think that we have sinned less than others. This must be because we are a
little more mature. Even so, how difficult do we find it to correct ourselves.
Would it not be more difficult for a habitual sinner to retrieve himself? We
need not associate ourselves with him. The sastras proclaim that the first step
towards Atmic improvement is to sever ourselves from evil people and to seek
the company of virtuous men. But there is no point in looking upon sinners with
hatred or anger. All we can and must do is to pray that they turn to the path
of virtue. If, by the grace of the Lord, we acquire a little grace ourselves we
must use it to take them to the right path. Our opponent is not likely to
change his attitude towards us simply because we are angry with him. Instead,
he might turn against us with greater venom. Hatred thus will be kept fuelled
on either side. One must realise one's mistakes and try to reform oneself. We
cannot congratulate ourselves if a person corrects himself fearing our anger.
Also the change thus brought about in him will not be enduring. If we think
that there is something wrong with a man we must try to correct him with love.
Why do people sin? The reason must be their mental condition and the
circumstances in which they are placed. If we happen to be free from any guilt,
it must be because we are more favoured by circumstances. When you see a sinner
you must pray: "O Ambika, I too might have sinned like him. But in your
mercy you do not give me the occasion to do so. Be merciful to him in the same
way." We must not be angry with a man even if he bears ill-will against
us. Our innermost mind knows how far we deserve to be spoken ill of. It may be
that the man who nurses bad feelings against us is doing so not because of any
wrong done by us. We know, however, in our heart of hearts that the sins we
have committed are indeed great. Such is our predicament that we must shed
tears before Amba, atone for our sins and pray that they are washed away. In
that way are we qualified to point accusing finger at others? The question
arises: may we direct our anger against others when we are free from all sin?
Were we truly sinless, we would be all love and affection. Where is then the
question of our being angry with anyone? Even towards a sinner we should have
then no feeling other than that of love. On the other hand, if we are guilty of
wrongs ourselves we have no right to be angry with those we think are sinners.
In the state of utter sinlessness we realise it all to be the sport of Amba. In
her sport who merits praise, who deserves blame? Anger, in any case has no
place in our life. As I said earlier, according to Krsna Paramatman the two
great forces inciting man to sin are desire and anger. In other words we hurt
ourselves with our anger. Our opponent may ignore our anger but then we hurt
ourselves with it-both our body and mind suffer. The natural dharma of man is
to be loving and affectionate. And to be loving and affectionate is to be ever
in bliss. Love is Sivam, it is said. We must always learn to attain the
condition of love that is Sivam.
Love
and Sorrow
The
purpose of human birth is to live a life full of love for all. No joy is
greater than that of loving others. Amassing wealth, acquiring property,
earning fame, bedecking oneself give but transient pleasure, not any sense of
fullness. The happiness that permeates our inner being is the happiness of
loving others. When we love others we are not conscious of our suffering, the
physical exertion we make and the money we spend: indeed the joy of loving
gives us a transcendent feeling. A life in which there is no love for others is
a life lived in vain. I said that when we love a person we forget our sorrows.
But one day, at last, it may be that the object of our love itself becomes the
cause of great sorrow. One day the person we love leaves us forever-or one day
we will leave him forever. "O he has left me forever"-"O I am
leaving him for ever": we lament in this manner. We feel disturbed when we
realise that all the happiness that love gave us has at last proved to be a lie
and ended in sorrow. "Is the final outcome of love then sorrow?” We ask
ourselves in agitation. The greater our love for a person the more intense our
grief when he or she is separated from us forever. We may then even wonder
whether a life without love, a life of selfishness or a life of insensibility
would be better. One leading such a life will not be affected by being
separated from the object of his affection. A selfish or self-centred man,
however, gathers only sin. Is it not a life lived without joy- a life lived
without a sense of fullness- a life lived in vain, a life like that of a log of
wood or stone? [The problem then is]: Our love for others ends in sorrow.
However, if there is no love there is no meaning in life. What is the solution
to this problem? We must create such love as will never change, love that will
be enduring. The object of our love must never become separated from us, never
desert us. If there were such an object and if we devoted all our love to it we
would never be separated from one another- there would be eternal bliss,
everlasting fullness. To explain, we must love the One Object that never
changes. What is that Object? The Paramatman. The Paramatman will never be
separated from us. Even if our life departs it will dissolve in the Paramatman
and become one with him. Only that love is everlasting which is dedicated to
him. The question arises: If one is to love the Paramatman that never perishes,
does it mean that we must not love anyone else, that we must not love others
because they will perish one day? If our love for the Supreme Being keeps
growing the truth will dawn on us that there is no one or nothing other than
He. All those whom we loved, all those who caused us sorrow by being separated
from us, they too will seem to us the imperishable Supreme Being. We must learn
to look upon the entire universe as the Paramatman and love it as such. Our
love then shall never be a cause of sorrow. Even if it be that our love is not
such as to embrace the universe with all its creatures as an expression of the
Paramatman, we can learn to love with ease all those great men of Atmic
qualities as the Paramatman, so also our sadguru who is full of wisdom and
grace. Sufficient it would be to love them and surrender to them. Through them
the Paramatman will give us his blessings. When someone we love dies we should
not grieve for him. We must console ourselves that only the body which was the
disguise of the Paramatman has perished, that the one who was in that disguise
has become united with the Paramatman. Our love then will be everlasting. We
must first learn to have such love for Isvara and for people of goodness, for
men of God. Then step by step, we must enlarge it to embrace all creation. In
this way the purpose of our life will be fulfilled.
Love
What
is called love may be divided into three categories. We love great men for
their high qualities, I mean distinguished men, men of truth, philanthropists,
jnanins, men of grace. We mix with our friends and relatives intimately and
affection develops between them and us. Then we love people- love them
ostensibly for a specific purpose, for the reason that we stand to gain from
them. For instance, we may seem to love a rich man hoping that he would help us
in our business or some other enterprise. We may love our employer because he
pays us our wages. These three types of love are neither true nor everlasting.
If our employer sacks us we will cease to have either respect or affection for
him. If people with whom we have had close contacts leave for a distant place or
die or if we lose touch with them, we are likely in due course to forget them.
All the sorrow we felt in the beginning because of being separated from them
will eventually be forgotten. Were it true love the grief also should be
enduring. Even our love for a great man is not lasting. If there happens to be
a diminution in his qualities- or if he seems to us not as great as we thought
he was- we will love him in correspondingly lesser measure. All three
categories of love have some reason [or motive] behind them. That is why they
are not everlasting. We love great men because they possess certain qualities:
there is an element of selfish interest in our feelings for them: because we
think they will be helpful in our advancement. True love knows neither reason
nor motive. When do we love a man truly? When our affection for him is
unchanging and unwavering- we love him even if he does not apparently move
closely with us or does not seem to possess inward qualities or the capacity to
bless us; we love him even when we do not have any selfish interest to be
served by him. Does anyone possess such love? Yes, only One. It is Isvara - he
alone has such love. God loves us for no reason. If he needed a reason he would
not give us even a morsel of food. It is Paramesvara who forgives all our
misdeeds and protects us- and he is all love. It is his love that is manifested
in the three categories mentioned earlier. We must learn to have such love as
is revealed through Paramesvara; that is love that is universal, love that is
not based on any reason or interest. Why should we dislike a man because we
think he is guilty of certain wrongs? Are we not similarly guilty ourselves? Do
we then discard ourselves? We must have the same attitude towards others as we
have towards ourselves. There is nothing remarkable about our love for a great
man; the remarkable thing is to love a sinner also. If you ask me, you must
have greater concern and affection for him. "He commits wrongs like
us," we must tell ourselves. "His mind goads him into doing them. We
must have sympathy for him and try to correct him". There may be a few
whom Isvara, out of his compassion, has given the gift of blessing others. Such
men must take it upon themselves the task of freeing others from sinful
actions. We must, to start with, learn to have disinterested love for an
individual, that is love that is not tainted by self-interest. Eventually, this
love will permeate us, inspire our inner being, and we will then be able to
enlarge it to embrace all. It is the teaching of the wise that we must have
such love for our guru, love without any consideration of the fruits thereof.
We must not look for any reason to love our preceptor. If we constantly
"practise" to have such love for our guru we will be the recipients
of his blessings. Our love for him will eventually grow into love that will
encompass all. If our love is manifested in this manner there will be fullness,
tranquility and bliss.
Om
Tat Sat
(Continued...)
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